Wedding dress codes explained

With wedding season upon us, most guests’ biggest question is, “what should I wear?”. You want to feel comfortable and fit the dress code and not upstage the bride! It’s also just as important to know what it all means if you’re getting married and are choosing a dress code for your special day. After all, your venue and wedding style can influence your guest's dress code and vice versa.

Here are the most common wedding dress codes explained.

Black tie wedding attire

Black tie is as formal and glamorous as it gets. For ladies, we’re talking full-length evening gowns paired with heels. For male guests, wear a classic black suit, bow tie, and smart leather shoes.

Formal wedding attire

A formal dress code is about dressing to impress. There’s more flexibility compared to black-tie attire. Female guests can choose gowns or midi-length cocktail dresses. For men, wear either a tuxedo or suit with a bow tie or tie.

Cocktail wedding attire

A cocktail dress code means less formality, but sophistication is expected. Women can wear an elegant dress, suit, jumpsuit, or separates. Men should choose a suit and usually a tie. For a relaxed look, smart trousers and a blazer are acceptable.

Cocktail wedding guests

Smart casual wedding attire

Smart casual means relaxed but presentable. Women have flexibility with shirts, separates, and dresses. For men, wear a simple combination of a shirt, jacket or sweater and slacks or chinos.

Casual wedding attire

Relax if the dress code is casual. Wear whatever you’re comfortable in, but remember you’re a wedding guest - dress appropriately. For ladies, casual dresses, trousers, and flats are good. For men, short-sleeved shirts and casual shorts or trousers work.

Destination wedding attire

If it’s a destination wedding, it’s time for all-out holiday glam. Ladies can get the look with luxe resort wear like linen dresses or jumpsuits. Linen is great for men, too – think linen shorts, trousers, and jackets.

Seasonal wedding attire

If the dress code is seasonal, choose something comfortable for the weather and appropriate for the occasion. For men and women, florals are great in spring, and lighter fabrics work for summer. Wear warmer items in neutral tones for autumn and winter. And if you’re in Melbourne, don’t forget a nice warm coat!

Wedding dress code tips

  • It’s great to know what dress codes mean, but other tips can help, whether you’re planning the wedding or you’re a guest.

  • Wear shoes you’re comfortable in. Ladies wearing heels might consider putting flat shoes in their bags.

  • If you’re deciding the dress code, consider what’s appropriate for the season and venue and avoid being too specific.

  • Don’t wear white unless you’re asked to or told it’s ok.

  • Don’t wear anything that looks like a wedding dress.

  • If you have multiple weddings to attend with different dress codes, consider hiring outfits if you’re on a budget.

  • Always adhere to the dress code, even if it’s not what you’d choose.

Custom evening dresses in Melbourne

If you’re a guest at a wedding or special event, we can design the ideal evening dress that fits the dress code. We’ll help you avoid a fashion faux pas by designing a unique evening dress just for you! Contact us to book an appointment today!

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